Thursday, September 29, 2011
the fantabulous 7 year old birthday girl Morgan
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Wednesday, September 28, 2011
The Most Adorable Giggle Award goes too....
There is just nothing quite like a baby's whole-hearted giggle! Levi has the cutest laugh, I think, of any of our babies... it's infectious to say the least.
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Saturday, September 24, 2011
Launching Next Month!
Hello blog friends! I'm super excited to say that a brand new blog is in the works and will hopefully be ready to be launched around the 5th anniversary of Bacon TidBits in October... a friend of mine is designing it for me, and I love, love, love it so far. It will be a completely new address (to give our family more privacy) that I will give out when the time comes... stay tuned!
But tell me, if you will...
- Is there anything you'd like to see more of?
- Do you have any great ideas for me?
- Anything else you'd like to share with me?
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Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Monday, September 19, 2011
a few of my favorite things
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Sunday, September 18, 2011
reusable unbleached coffee filters!
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Saturday, September 17, 2011
greenhouse bounty
He also grew a yummy assortment of herbs including basil, parsley, and lavendar.
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Keepin' it Real and Simple
Our first two weeks of school have come and gone, and I'm very pleased to say that we are finally doing for school the things I've dreamed about over the last several years. Our days are simple and not hurried, as we try to keep everyday wonder the forefront of our times together. Here are a few snapshots of the first two weeks... mind you, these don't include the time when I cried the first day of school because of a frustration, and this (thank goodness) doesn't include pictures of the massive, I talking MASSIVE pooptastrophy involving a certain baby during naptime also on the first day of school.
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Thursday, September 15, 2011
Debt-Free Adoptions
The question was asked in the comments by Torie:
"I am wondering if you have advice/information on how to adopt without going into debt?"
That is a great question, Torie, and I'd love to answer it!
Both of our adoptions were/will be debt-free adoptions. For the sake of privacy and following our state's protocol, I'll not specify in this post, which child goes to which adoption - but one of ours was a private/independent adoption finalized with a lawyer without agency involvement and the other was a foster-adopt situation.
Our independent/private adoption was a word-of-mouth adoption. We told everyone we could think of across the country that we wanted to adopt -- let's make a long story short and say that 9 months later, we heard about our soon-to-be baby! Or should I say they heard about us. In that 9 month wait (which could have been a wait of any amount of time, since we were advertising ourselves and there was no guarantee...) we got our homestudy completed, and that cost under $800, which was due in two payments that we made straight out of savings. Then we had fingerprinting, background checks, etc... to pay as well. To save up funds to pay our attorney fees eventually, (we still hadn't heard of our baby, but that all would happen just days later!) which ended up being under $3,000 - we held a fundraiser garage sale that turned out to be ginormous, with 33 families donating goods to be sold. We made enough to pay all of our fees - we were incredibly thankful and in awe at how God orchestrated the events in this adoption.
Our foster-adoption was virtually free. I believe most states are set up this way - - and this was a huge gift as well! We were not expecting our baby that came through the foster-adoption in the same way we were expecting and preparing our hearts for the private adoption - but this baby came as a surprise baby and completely blew our socks off! I would love to share more as I'm able about this process...
As you can see, there are ways to adopt without breaking the bank, but I will say this -
I don't believe that a family's sole deciding factor in adoption should be the financial portion. I know it's easy, especially for men, to be drawn to the least expensive route... but I would urge you to truly search your hearts and most importantly God's heart on the matter. Where is your future child/children? Is he/she going to appear in a birthmom's womb here in the U.S.? Are they waiting in an orphanage across the world? Is your child in the foster care system right now, longing for a family? God knows. Search his heart on the matter. All God's children need a family, and there are no country borders or race lines drawn in his family. Our children just happened to be in our state. My niece was brought home from Korea. There is no one "right" kind of adoption - one that trumps the rest. They're all his. Every one. As I've seen time and time again within adoption in my own family and the adoptions happening around me, God takes care of the financial portion. He just does. When you are joining him in the work that is near and dear to his heart - he provides.
Feel free to ask more questions - I'll try to answer them - or find someone who can!
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Wednesday, September 14, 2011
First Birthday Party!
We had a super sweet and simple party for him,
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